It's been some time I haven't done an OOTD post, either there is no one to take my OOTD for me or I wore crap out lol 

of course I wear Tshirts and shorts with (non matching *gasp) slippers out sometimes when I'm going somewhere nearby or out for food with my family

but mostly when I'm going out I try to dress up a bit 

hey, who doesn't want to look lovely? not me!

This Sunday (Mother's day!), after staring at my wardrobe for what, 10 minutes without finding anything to wear #girlsbeinggirls

I decided to go casual, not the "I-don't-care-casual" but the "oh-I'm-so-chic-casual" hahaha 

whether it's casual chic or Tshirt and jeans, I think the best outfit is the one you feel comfortable with

no sense wearing something nice but you feeling all awkward, yes?

most importantly is to be none other than yourself

If you think you look good, YOU LOOK GOOD

when you look good, you feel good 

I know that I may not be the best person to give such advice but this is what I've always meant to say to the younger me

I used to be all awkward and is always super self-conscious around people

but things changed when I figured out we can't control what people think, so why bother?

and also, I found my own style and felt good about it too lol

If you're wondering, details of my OOTD -

mint singlet- CottonOn

jeans- FittingLoom

outer knit wear- Bazaar

bag- Charles and Keith

thick platform booties- Nile.com

long necklace- Christmas present!

The reason why i love love love necklaces, normal or statement, is that they help to reinforce your outfit 

imagine you feeling all bold and wants to get noticed, you go with a statement necklace

going girly and princessy? go sweet necklace

casual? go long necklaces 

And.................

that's how the cookie crumbles hahahaha always wanted to say that somewhere lol

talk to you soon!

XOXO,

Charisnk

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